Memoirs, Sex, Chaos and Survival

Sex, Trauma and Surviving Narcissists

Memoirs of emotional abuse, filthy humour, dark sex, and the kind of healing that doesn’t come with affirmations.
Sex, trauma and surviving narcissists isn’t just the theme; it’s the whole genre. This is where memoirs get messy, funny, raw, and occasionally illegal.

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Bromance two guys dressed festively having a beer

From Glory Holes to Grey Zones: The Curious Case of Bromance and Sexuality

From Glory Holes to Grey Zones: The Curious Case of Bromance and Sexuality There’s a hole in the wall. And…

Surviving Emotional Abuse Light Coming Through a Door

Surviving Emotional Abuse: A Poem About the Silence That Killed Me

Surviving Emotional Abuse: A Poem About the Silence That Killed Me This is for the ones who never got hit…

The Story of Glory Holes in History Mans Eye Looking Through Hole

The History of Glory Holes: The Real Origin Story

The History of Glory Holes: The Real Origin Story The history of glory holes is the question nobody admits typing…

Online stalker in dark room using phone and laptop, representing digital harassment and cyberstalking threat

Online Stalker Sends Terrifying Message: “You’re Going to See Me”

Online Stalker Sends Terrifying Message: “You’re Going to See Me” The message came in this morning. No subject line. No…

Surviving BPD In Relationships How I Unmasked a Borderline Personality in My Relationship

Surviving BPD in Relationships

Surviving BPD in Relationships: How I Unmasked a Borderline Personality When I first met him, I thought I had found…

A moody dash cam–style photo of a man alone in a car at night, reflecting vindictive narcissist behaviour

Vindictive Narcissist Behaviour: How Charm Turns to Carnage

You haven’t lived until a narcissist decides you’re the villain in their story. One minute you’re their obsession, the next…


Surviving BPD and NPD

Surviving BPD and NPD

ADHD, addiction, manipulation, and emotionally devastating sex. It’s all here. Buckle up.


The History of Glory Holes

The History of Glory Holes

Anonymous sex, secret codes, and the horny underground that history forgot. History class is officially cancelled.


How to Become Famous in 24 Hours

How to Become Famous in 24 Hours

Chicken dress. Carrot mic. Stalking Gaga. This post belongs in the Louvre and a psych ward.

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